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esimerkiksi seksist kommunikoimisen ja sen millainen naiskuva pornossa mediassa ja yhteiskunnassa ylip t ns on ja miten se vaikuttaa ihan meid n perustavisten arkeen tiedostetusti ja tiedostamattakin Kolme t hte annan siit hyv st ett kirja kuitenkin yhdist kiinnostavalla tavalla yhteiskunnallista pohdintaa ja seksuaalisuuden tarkastelua eri n k kulmista Ja niist uusista ajatuksista p ss ni M m m m Informative entertaining and touching all kinds of touching This was nothing like I expected A humorous self deprecating and self effacing but intelligent and inquisitive narrator takes us on a belated journey of sexual self discovery that is both educational and liberating I ll confess that I read this book at just the right time for me I identified with so much of the author s apprehension and relief along her journey She is very fortunate to have looked in all the right places for her which makes for an enlightening trip and a happy ending forgive the pun I didn t expect to be moved in quite the way I was by this story but it meant a lot to me and I d recommend it to men as well as women for its accessibility and openness M m m m Women are capable of powerful transcendental pleasure but that fact has not just been lost it hasn t been respected at all Women s sexual pleasure has been suppressed feared denied and punished over thousands of years and women have been murdered and mutilated because of it p 103 Wow what a refreshing book This month I attended the Unbound proof party at Cheltenham Literature Festival where Lucy Anne was one of the authors discussing her imminent memoir The event was memorable for a few reasons one of them being the response that it elicited from an older lady who was sharing the table I was sitting at she clearly didn t approve of such a book But for me this event will be memorable as the time that I accidentally came across a book that I was perhaps waiting years to read whether I realised it or not Holmes has written a very honest memoir about her journey to discover her own sexuality or perhaps at least about her sexuality She starts by explaining how she came to write the book in her own words this was as a result of a shocking discovery when looking at internet porn trying to find something to arouse her Instead of finding arousal she found herself thinking about her nieces growing into young women and what our current society is feeding to them in regards to sex and sexuality This then led her to re evaluate her own sex life specifically just how much she had actively considered her own sexuality and pleasure when it came to sex What we then have is a very frank funny astute and intelligent journey as Holmes explores her own sexuality Within this Holmes makes excellent points around how society and culture shapes sexuality but also how a media governed by heterosexual men affects wider perceptions of sex and sexuality because they are feeding us sex as though we are all heterosexual men As a woman I found that there were many times throughout this book where I found myself relating to what Holmes was saying feeling experiencing and expressing I actually keep a handwritten book journal where I transcribe favourite quotes from the books that I have read For this book there were far too many that I would have liked to copy I found myself reading out passages of it to my boyfriend as I found sections that expressed exactly what I had felt in the past but in a much coherent eloquent way There is such a lot here to consider and to take as a counsellor who has worked with survivors of sexual abuse consent has always been something that I am familiar with but here in a section on BDSM there is an explanation of the consent wheel which is just fabulous It takes the idea of explicit consent much further also demonstrating that within sexual encounters each partner can slide between the various stages of the wheel throughout their encounter Personally I think this is an absolute success Holmes should be applauded for her honesty her sensitivity and her humanity in exploring a subject that seems to be everywhere around us yet at the same time everyone is embarrassed to talk about I will be recommending it to my female friends and despite what the older lady that I was sat next to in Cheltenham seemed to suggest I think that men could get a lot from this memoir too M m m m Todella hyvi ja arvokkaita juttuja esimerkiksi suostumuksesta wheel of consent oli k sitteen jotain joka meist jokaisen olisi hyv ottaa haltuun vaikka toki t m ei Holmesin oma k site ollutkaan omista rajoista ein sanomisesta ja vastaanottamisesta itsetuntemuksesta Ylip ns ihanaa ett naisen seksuaalisuudesta kirjoitetaan ja puhutaan vihdoin n in avoimesti. Book Dont Hold My Head down lyrics Sitten se mutta miksi siit seksuaalisuudesta t ytyy jotenkin aina kertoa niin hassunhauskan huumorin keinoin Holmesin tapa kirjoittaa eli siis l hinn vitsailla ei iskenyt itseeni sitten yht n My sk n muut v h n samaa aihepiiri sivuavat viime aikoina ilmestyneet kirjat kuten Runkkarin k sikirja tai Himokirja eiv t vaan mitenk n tyylilt n vieh t olen yritt nyt lukea niit mutta en p ssyt ekaa kymment sivua pidemm lle En tarkoita ett tahtoisin lukea pelkk kuivakkaa asiateksti seksist ehei en ollenkaan mutta jotenkin sellainen humoristinen kepe v h n itsekriittinen ja tarkkaileva s vy on vaan niin v synytt Tai ehk Holmesin tapauksessa emme vain ole samalla viivalla ajatuksissamme TAI suomennos hukkasi jotain. Kindle Dont Hold My Head down on me My s tantraseksist ja seksifestareista puhuminen et nnytti itse ni ihan kuin seksi olisi jotenkin pienen piirin hallitsema salaisuus Ett vasta kun tied t tantran kaikki kujeet ja saat ne 14 erilaista orgasmia suhtaudun t h n v h n skeptisyydell olet boss oman seksuaalisuutesi kanssa Totta kai jokaisen seksuaalisuus on omanlaisensa ja uniikki ja Holmes nyt l ysi h nen seksuaalisuutensa avaimen t ll tavoin mutta olisin kaivannut viel v h n jotain toista otetta ehk v h n niiden omien l yt jen ja tapojen haastamista Vaikka kirjassa muuten olikin loistavasti isompaa yhteiskunnallista otetta n iss kohdin se j i hauraaksi Voin toki haastaa t ss itse nikin ett miksi juuri n m jutut rsyttiv t mit ne kertovat minusta Aloitetaanpa siis oma seksimatka Joka tapauksessa kelpo luettava nopea ihan hauska jos huumori iskee yhteen Holmesin kautta hyvi pointteja esille nostava Etenkin loppua kohden parani huomattavasti nautin erityisesti rehellisest kuvauksesta omasta seksuaalisuudesta raskauden j lkeen M m m m The subtitle should make it pretty clear why I was interested in this Holmes hit her mid thirties and became aware after a disappointing wank to Internet porn that she wasn t having nearly as good sex as she wanted So she made a list slow sex A bit of kink Maybe some bum stuff Full body orgasms and set off to see what she could find out about how to bang better It s a fun read certainly but much of it feels and I accept that it s very easy to criticize a bitbasic Not in terms of the sex she has Holmes does stuff in the name of let s see what this is like than I ever have but in terms of the tone and the attitude which is all a bit jolly awkward Bridget Jones falling into a mud puddle whoopsy I m such a silly tit There is a lot of caps lock There are many exclamation points A writer can t help the person that they are but I was hoping for something that I d be able to connect to on an emotional level a bit Instead I found myself repeatedly thinking for Christ s sake woman not helped by the fact that Holmes meets a man halfway through the book and ends up entering a serious relationship with him eventually having a baby Perhaps that s meant to be a happy ending but it did rather close off some avenues of exploration Maybe I ll have to write my own version of this book. Don't hold my head down If you like what I write why not buy me a coffee M m m m

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RTC but an interesting read and well written Often these types of books can be a little like a stream of consciousness which can be off putting but this was not like that and I really enjoyed it M m m m I appreaciate the author s frank way of talking about her sexuality her honesty and enthusiasm for being experimental I don t think there can be enough frank accounts of female sexuality However I really struggled with the style which teetered between embarassment and a sort of dumbed down chumminess making use of added letters multiple exclamation marks and general look at me hihihi isn t this silly I don t think this style is necessarily very helpful for the topic M m m m L hdin lukemaan t t odottaen hauskaa seksikirjaa sain niin paljon enemm n Holmes kirjoittaa yhteiskunnallisesti eritt in t rkeist aiheista kuten siit miten porno on miesten miehille tekem eik naisten mielipiteit toiveita tai haluja kuulla tai n hd siin Moni nainen harrastaa surkeaa seksi koska ei ole edes oppinut ett voisi itse olla aktiivinen toimija ja kertoa mit haluaa ja mit ei Naisten seksuaalisuutta on kontrolloitu vuosituhannet joten onko se ihme Edes naiskehon anatomiaa ei ole haluttu ymm rt eih n siit ole kovin montaa vuotta kun vasta klitoriksen todellinen koko ja muoto paljastui Ent moniko tiet ett naisella on 14 eri tapaa saada orgasmi Miss n ist puhuttaisiin naisten nell naisten n k kulmasta naisia varten Ei juuri miss n. Book Dont Hold My Head down Kirjassa Holmes k y omael m kertamaisesti l pi omaa seksuaalista matkaansa ja seikkailujaan hauskalla ja viihteellisell tyylill ja yhdist sitten kokemuksensa tiukkaan yhteiskunta analyysiin ja paukuttaa naisten seksuaaliseen asemaan liittyv t ongelmakohdat ja faktat tiskiin. M-m-m-m Dont Hold My Head down song Ai ett miten upea ja voimaannuttava kirja Inspiroiva Lucy Anne Holmes T st tuli yksi vuoden lemppareista M m m m When I picked up this book in a London bookshop and felt I needed to buy it I didn t expect to really get anything out of it other than an interesting read But boy was I wrong Yes it was a very interesting read sometimes funny sometimes moving But some parts resonated with me so deeply in a way that I someone who considers herself to be a sexually free and satisfied woman never expected I know I ll be thinking about this book for a long time Thank you Lucy M m m m I pledged for this book on Unbound so I m not exactly an objective reviewer That said I only chose Holmes s book because another project fell through and I had credits to spare And boy did I make the right decision It is a sex book as the author says She talks candidly about her sex life and there s quite a bit of detailed description but importantly much of it is description of how sex makes the author feel not just the acts themselves Comparisons with Caitlin Moran come to mind but where the latter always aims for the punchline Holmes is much genuine in both her biography and her humour In the beginning I wasn t sure if a memoir of sex adventures would keep me interested beyond a peeping Tom level but something Holmes says in the beginning really touched me and made me devour the rest of the book She talks about her first proper slow pleasurable sexual encounter and describes how she cried in the end and thought that she didn t _deserve_ to be treated like that I choked up a bit It was so powerful to see from a woman s perspective how men can forget basic decency and respect so quickly when it comes to sexual pleasure We are truly shit too often aren t we This was the revelation of this book the escapades just a side story: Book Dont Hold My Head down elvis Reading the last paragraph this book was clearly written for women But it should be compulsory reading for men Thank you Lucy Ann Holmes M m m m Dont Hold My Head Down.